CBT: Educating the "Little Head," Part 3

They call Her "Mistress Spank" for good reason. “The three things I love doing most to slaves are: spank, spank and spank!” She says. “In CBT I like to use My small rectangular-shaped leather paddle and a small long-bristled hair brush.” Mistress Spank makes the slave spread his legs and then She binds them apart with a metal leg-spreader. “Next I'll stroke his cock with my fingers until it gets hard. Then I'll grab the head of his cock with two fingers and slap his stiff shaft on top and bottom with the leather paddle. I use a series of sharp hard strokes, starting slowly and speeding up the strokes as I go along.” When She is done bruising Her slave’s cock, She’ll switch to his balls. “I crunch them in a fist and go to work on them with the stiff-bristled brush. “Often I'll get so deep into it that I almost forget the rest of the slave is even present,” She adds. “There's just Me, My spanking toys and a nasty set of cock-and-balls that needs to be punished.” Another of My Femdom friends makes Her submissive take a more hands on approach to his own cock torment. “If I want My boyfriend to really enjoy himself sexually, I’ll sit him down naked and have him masturbate in front of Me until he cums,” says Mistress Minah. “He loves that and I love seeing his little penis squirting into his hand. “But when I feel his pee-pee needs to be punished, I make him lie down and milk his own prostate. I love to hear him moan and groan as the cum dribbles out of his cock without any pleasurable spasms like he'd get in a real orgasm.” Afterwards, Mistress Minah says, Her boyfriend may “pout for a day or two but won’t give Me any back-talk or other problems for a while.” Strict Teacher, on the other hand, is really a university-level educator by profession. She enjoys carrying over that role into Her BDSM play. “I deal with the penises of My playmates--including My new husband’s randy little cock--in that context,” Strict Teacher says. “I have a desk in My little dungeon. When I’m displeased with the behavior of one of My 'pupils' I order him to appear for an 'after school' disciplinary session.” The student stands at attention in front of Strict Teacher’s desk. The She orders the pupil to pull down his trousers and underpants. “Then I’ll tell him to take his penis in his hand and hold it out toward Me, with his palm up, in a gesture of surrender and offering.” Strict Teacher picks up a ruler She keeps on Her desk and spanks the naughty pupil’s penis with very hard, sharp strokes. “The pupil must count every stroke aloud. If he misses a count, I start from zero again.” But it’s My dear friend Emma who deserves a straight-A for concocting the most creative penis torture of all. “Nothing beats a mousetrap as a cost-effective cbt device,” Emma says. “They’re cheap, hurt like hell and are small enough to carry in My purse. I use them mostly for punishing a sub who has broken one of My rules. “ Emma orders the sub to perform naked push ups for Her. But before the sub begins, She positions several mousetraps on the floor right below his cock and balls. “Then I’ll have him do, say, 20 push ups,” says Emma. “If he does them properly, no problem. If he touches the floor and springs the traps, he gets the punishment he deserves.” But the punishment session doesn’t necessarily end there. Like the mythical Goddesses of ancient Greece, My friend Emma is famous for being arbitrary and capricious. “If I see the sub is going to do his prescribed 20 push ups without snapping the mousetraps onto his drooping cock or balls,” She says, “halfway through I just might add another ten repetitions. And maybe ten after that,” Emma adds, laughing.

CBT: Educating The "Little Head," Part 2

In My Pro Domme CBT "kit" I keep a large assortment of tools of torment.

You never know what a client will want.

But in My personal life, I'm surprisingly low tech.

I don't "play" with My slave hubby, I punish him for his domestic misdemeanors and felonies.

So, with a few major exceptions, I try to use ordinary items from around the house.

For minor offenses, such as disputing an order I've given, I put him on a bench or his bed with his legs spread, tied to the wrought-iron frame. Then I paddle his cock with one of My wooden paint stirrers or My long-handled shoe-horn. Or I grab his cock by the head, stretch it and spank his balls hard with My hand.

For major infractions, such as masturbating without permission, I pull out My small cat-o'-nine-tails. I order the slave onto his feet and attach a conical leather "parachute" around his ballsack. Then I attach painful weights (ranging from 8 ounces to 22 ounces, depending on how angry I am) to the chains that hang from the parachute. While the weights drag his testicles toward the floor, I'll be whipping his cock with My cat-o'-nine-tails.

Or else I put him on the bed and attach the electrodes of My vibrating toy to his cock and balls.

The device doesn't hurt. On the contrary, it gives subby-hubby a pleasant shock, producing a major erection. And the moment his Mr. Stiffy leaps to attention I whip it with the cat-o'-nine tails.

As a final option, I may decorate his useless little pee-pee with pretty colored clothespins all wired together. Then I'll rip off the clothespins with a single yank. (To see bob's CBT session, click here.)

Ouch!

In contrast to My low-tech style of penis-punishment, My friend BustyDomme prefers a do-it-yourself approach.

"Instead of torturing a slave's cock and balls, I'll make him do it to himself," this Mistress says. "I'll make the slave squeeze his testicles into a small metal vice, then order him to turn the screw that tightens it until he's practically screaming in pain for his momma. And he's doing it all by himself.

"I also like watching a slave beat the living hell out of his own cock using the big wooden soup spoon from My kitchen.

"There are lots of other things that you can get them do to themselves," BustyDomme says. "I find it hilarious," She adds, laughing, "how eager and happy they are to torture their own cocks and balls just to please Me."

Double Ouch!!

My friend Dixie Domina is a registered nurse by profession. By day She calms patients' fears and soothes their pain. By night She does just the opposite, using instruments straight out of Her nurse's kit.

"Forceps, for instance, are a perfect tool for brutally pinching a "patient's" testicles,” Dixie says.

My English friend Mistress Myr enjoys using familiar household instruments in cbt.

"Clothespins, of course," says Myr. "And

My very favorite: a pair of ordinary mousetraps, one hanging from each of My submissive's balls, with a big black plastic clip (the kind you use to seal open bags of potato crisps) pinching the head of his cock.” She adds, "Ripping everything off is the fun part."

Stay tuned for lots more ways to torment Your slave/boyfriend/hubby’s cocks and balls, courtesy of My cruel Femdom crew.

CBT: Educating The "Little Head," Pt. 1

Years ago, as a first-year university student, I overheard a couple of older female classmates quietly gossiping over tea about something truly bizarre. They were reveling in the fun they had tieing up their boyfriends and tenderizing their bare bottoms with whips, paddles and floggers. Naive Me; I was flabbergasted. Even more so when the discussion shifted to something they called “cbt.” I had no clue what that was. But apparently it was so painful that just a little bit of it induced their boyfriends (as one girl put it), “to scream like a stuck pig.” Back in My dorm room I cracked open My laptop and googled “cbt.” Boy, was I disappointed. CBT stood for “Cognitive Behavior Therapy.” And the only painful part was the boredom of reading about it. Later a friend explained to Me that cbt also stood for “cock and ball torture.” And I’ve been an acolyte ever since. Cognitive Behavior Therapy may be strong mental medicine for a man’s big head. The other kind of cbt is far more effective therapy for the little head between a man’s legs, the one he actually thinks with. Nothing in the world can shrink a man’s goitered ego quicker than a cruel assault on his prized “family jewels.” I like to strip a slave, tie him up and focus like a laser on his naked “little head.” I’ll attach large, painful metal binder clips to his cock and balls. Then I’ll take a pair of forceps, snare the head of his penis in it and squeeze very hard.

It seems that every Domme has Her favorite form of cock and ball torment. Stay tuned for Part 2, where I’ll reveal some of My more sadistic Domme friends’ nastiest tools and torments.

Turning Subs Into Sissy Cocksuckers, Part II

Recently, in My FemDom forum, there was a thread titled, “How Far Would You Go In Feminizing A Male Sub?”
Mistress Jasmine posted this response.
“When I feminize a sub he has to pass an 'oral exam.' Like, right now I’m feminizing My boyfriend. He knows that his training won’t be complete--and I won’t be happy--until I see a cock in his mouth and cum streaming down his chin. I’ve done it several times before, with the help of a couple of gay friends,” Jasmine added. “You can never predict how things will work out, even with the most macho straight guys. Once, My hyper-hetero 'boyfriend' ended up as My gay friend’s new ‘girlfriend.’”
In response, dommelover (a male submissive), replied, “I will go (and have gone) pretty far to please a Domme. But sucking some guy off on command or taking some guy's cock up my butt--these are my hard limits.” dommelover went on to say that although “guys fantasize about being forced to submit to another guy . . . in reality very few would ever do it. I certainly wouldn't.”
It’s a classic confrontation.
In one corner, the Mistress who demands that Her sissies suck cock as proof of their feminization. In the opposing corner, the sub who’ll do anything for a Mistress except take another man’s penis in his mouth.
I have never forced a slave to become a cocksucker. In contrast, I have no compunction about ordering a slave to suck cock when I know that forced cocksucking is his secret fantasy.
How can I tell?
One way is to seat him at a computer, naked. I attach a wired electrical gizmo (a friend of mine made it) to his penis. If the slave’s penis stiffens, the two contacts of the device will touch, creating a closed circuit that sets off an alarm.
Hooked up to this genital “lie detector,” I play a movie for him on the computer, showing in graphic detail a straight male forced into giving his first blow job.
If the alarm goes off while My sub is viewing the video, he’s ripe for real life cocksucking.
Try it for yourself.
Get naked in front of your computer, then click here for some hot cocksucking. If your penis pops up and starts spitting pre-cum, you’re ready to go gay.

Turning Subs Into Sissy Cocksuckers, Part 1

Not long ago a thread on My Femdom forum debated the controversial topic of “forced bi-.” One of the member Lifestyle Mistresses asked: “Do any of You Dommes find the idea of having Your sub sexually service someone of his/her same sex a turn on?” Some forum members hated the idea. “Actually, the thought of a sub of Mine wanting to service someone else, regardless of her/his gender, is a major turn off for Me,” says LadyLeather. “I find the notion of one of My male subs feasting off another male's penis just disgusting.” Other Dommes approved of the practice. Mistress Jasmine says She is in the process of feminizing Her new live-in submissive. “I think he's beginning to have fun with feminization as a form of play. Now I want to take it one step further and see how he handles taking cock in his mouth.” Submissives, She adds, get their kicks from being humiliated. “And what could be more humiliating for a male than to bury his nose in another guy’s bush, while the guy f**ks his face, and his Mistress sits there watching?” And some Femdoms believe that forced bi- is a critical phase of sissification. For instance, Mistress Mayhem, of Chicago, belongs to a Women’s group whose goal is to transform their vanilla male partners into obedient sissies. “A while ago, We decided that in order to break their macho dominating attitudes We would have to introduce a forced-bi option into their training,” She says. The Women arranged for their six men to participate in naked all-male one-against-one wrestling matches. The losers would have to perform oral sex on the winners. “My husband was unfortunate in his draw,” Mistress Mayhem recalls. “His opponent was an ex-college wrestler who outweighed him by 40 pounds. Predictably My husband’s opponent 'pinned' him in about 40 seconds flat." She adds: “I must admit, to My surprise, that I got sexually excited when I saw My sissy husband on his knees with another man’s penis in his mouth. Even more excited as the man gripped hubby’s head with one hand and his penis with the other and started f * * * ing his mouth with forceful deep strokes. “It concluded with My husband spilling a very embarrassing spasm of cum all over the the opponent’s hand and chest.” Mistress Mayhem and Her friends enjoyed the spectacle so much that a few weeks later they arranged another set of wrestling matches. But this time the winners “barebacked” the losers' butts.

Maintenance Spankings

In September My husband bob will celebrate the second anniversary of the day he quit his filthy smoking habit. (See how I cured bob’s habit here.) I’m convinced that he’s been able to keep off the evil weed thanks to his regular maintenance spankings. Maintenance spankings are designed to prevent unruly or rebellious behavior before it happens. They remind My husband that I am the dominant and that My word is law. I own his ass as well as his assets, So three times a week--Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays--bob’s alarm rings at precisely 7 a.m.. He pulls down his underpants and climbs onto his bed, kneeling face down with his ass in the air. He calls, “I'm ready, Mistress.” When I’m ready (it may be three minutes later, a half hour or three hours, depending on My mood that morning) I enter his bedroom and give him ten hard strokes with My carcass-beater. bob counts off each stroke aloud. “Number one, Thank You, Mistress . . . number two, thank You, Mistress . . ." If he messes up the count (the pain from My carcass beater can cause instant Alzheimer’s) I give him ten additional strokes, for a total of 20. [caption id="attachment_128" align="alignleft" width="300"] Tenderizing bob's butt with My carcass-beater.[/caption] If I had the time, I’d make sure bob got 20 strokes every day. After 20 fierce strokes on his ass from My carcass-beater, bob is forced to spend most of the day on his feet. And a recent university study revealed that people who sit for three hours or less a day live about three years longer than their couch-potato peers.

Smoking Cure

Good news! it’s taken Me months of trials and tribulations, but I’ve finally managed to end My slave-hubby bob’s filthy smoking habit.
The key to his cure?
A flavored cigarette.
Remember flavored cigarettes? They tasted like candy (chocolate, mocha mint, pineapple coconut) and came in brightly colored packages.
Critics complained that they were designed, as USA Today reported, “to lure kids into lighting up.”
In 2009 the Feds passed a law barring the sale of any cigarettes flavored with cloves, fruit, anything other than menthol.
But that’s how I cured My slave bob.
I told him that henceforth he could smoke as many cigarettes a day as he wanted, as long as I personally flavored each cigarette first. To see My smoking cure, click here.