Friday, June 27, 2008

Orgasm Denial


I don’t think much of male-chastity devices (see My post “The Male Chastity Myth,” March 5, 2008), but I’m a firm believer in extreme orgasm denial.
When it comes to cementing a lasting FemDom relationship with a live-in slave husband, My credo is: the less sex the better and no sex is best of all.
No screwing, no oral.
And no masturbation!
In fact, If I ever catch My subby-hubby bob fondling his cock without My permission, he’ll be a certified candidate for castration.
Fortunately for bob, he’s as celibate as a monk, a lifestyle he reluctantly accepted a few months after he signed his slave contract.
One of the contract’s provisions stipulated that bob would surrender all conjugal rights pertaining to My torso.
Suddenly I could sleep all night without him gnawing on My nipples and poking his ridiculous little wiener into My privates.
And I was impressed by the change in bob's behavior.
Hungering for My flesh, he became the perfect submissive, groveling in the hope I'd grant him a quick feel of My boobs or some furtive groping of My ass while I was dressing.
But as the days wore on My hubby-slave's enthusiasm for serving his Mistress began to wane.
The telltale clues why?
Tiny bits of toilet paper stuck to his cock and a garbage pail teeming with stained bathroom tissues.
Secretly the wanker was milking his penis like a maniac.
I put a stop to that.
Henceforth I would permit him to masturbate only once a week, in My presence.
bob would sit naked on the edge of the jacuzzi in My master bathroom, a small plastic cup in one hand and his throbbing cock in the other.
I’d hover over him, completely nude, massaging My breasts and urging him to cum.
To make sure he was fantasizing about Me as he ejaculated, and not some sleazy porn star, bob was required to shout “Leesa, Leesa, Leesa” as his cum spurted into the cup.
Still I wasn’t satisfied with his level of adoration. Between those weekly jerk-off sessions, bob was becoming more and more prone to bouts of rebellion.
Then I had a revelation.
I realized that the moment bob’s spunk spewed into the cup, his adulation of his Mistress began to evaporate, to be miraculously resurrected only a day or two before his next self-abuse session.
The lesson?
The more bountiful My slave-hubby’s reservoir of stale sperm, the bluer his balls, the more worshipful was his behavior.
That was the revelation:
Sexual frustration is a supremely effective tool for controlling a personal slave. Orgasm denial breeds humility.
Just ask blissfully submissive bob.
Nowadays, the only time I permit his cock to stiffen is when, for My amusement, I clip the clamps of My electric joy-buzzer to his balls. Or when he misbehaves and I pummel his pee-pee erect with My cat-o’-nine-tails.
There’s one exception.
I derive intense pleasure from strapping on a fat dildo and ramming it repeatedly up hubby robert’s ass (or the ass of his tranny clone, sissy-maid ms. roberta). On those rare occasions I allow slave bob to hand-job himself to orgasm heaven, as long as his cock is sheathed in a condom. (You male-creatures are so, so messy!).
Otherwise, bob’s penis is strictly for pissing.
The result?
Every morning, when I climb out of bed, My slave-hubby is there to greet Me, naked on all fours in a pose of perfect abasement: Cock swollen with surging stickystuff, he’s panting with eagerness to wash both of his Goddess’s feet with his tongue, praying this is the lucky day I’ll finally let him blow his bursting wad.
Usually, though, bob's only "reward" is another beating.